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About this friend or co-worker who caused you to question your own worth --
Did he or she shake your confidence in your own goodness?
Did you doubt your suitability as a friend, your integrity as a person, or your maturity or responsibility?
What did he or she do or say that made you question yourself?
Sometimes, the period of self-doubt and reflection is marked by a question
you ask yourself repeatedly, like
Did you ask yourself such a question over and over during this time? If so, what was the question? (optional)
only a moment
never really stopped
I felt less close to this other person
I felt something like grief or sadness
harsh words were spoken
no change, nothing unusual
I came to feel that he or she had done me a favor.
We are no longer in contact.
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