"Goodness Me!" -- a Survey on Self-Doubt

(answers to Survey 2)


Response: #1
Received: Aug 28, 1997 23:41 ET

Did you ever have a friend or co-worker who caused you to question your own worth?
Was there ever a time when he or she shook your confidence in your own goodness?
Did you doubt your suitability as a friend, or your integrity as a person?

Perhaps he or she made a remark about your character without thinking,
or behaved in a way that said "I question your maturity or responsibility."

Think of a person from your past, someone who gave you such self-doubts.

About your feelings of self-doubt --

What did he or she do or say that made you question yourself?

Nagging Questions:

Sometimes, the period of self-doubt and reflection is marked by a question you ask yourself repeatedly.
Did you ask yourself such a question over and over during this time?

How long did you doubt yourself?

a week

What happened to the friendship/relationship during this period?

I felt something like grief or sadness

In the long term, what happened to this friendship or relationship as a result?

We are no longer in contact.



Response: #2
Received: May 30, 1998 17:15 ET

About your feelings of self-doubt --

What did he or she do or say that made you question yourself?

How long did you doubt yourself?

never really stopped

What happened to the friendship/relationship during this period?

I felt less close to this other person

In the long term, what happened to this friendship or relationship as a result?

Other:



Response: #3
Received: Sep 20, 1998 14:00 ET

About your feelings of self-doubt --

What did he or she do or say that made you question yourself?

Nagging Questions:

Sometimes, the period of self-doubt and reflection is marked by a question you ask yourself repeatedly.
Did you ask yourself such a question over and over during this time?

How long did you doubt yourself?

never really stopped

What happened to the friendship/relationship during this period?

I felt less close to this other person

In the long term, what happened to this friendship or relationship as a result?

Other:


Response: #4
Received: Dec 3, 1998 23:23 ET

Did you ever have a friend or co-worker who caused you to question your own worth?
Was there ever a time when he or she shook your confidence in your own goodness?
Did you doubt your suitability as a friend, or your integrity as a person?

Perhaps he or she made a remark about your character without thinking,
or behaved in a way that said "I question your maturity or responsibility."

Think of a person from your past, someone who gave you such self-doubts.

About your feelings of self-doubt --

What did he or she do or say that made you question yourself?

Nagging Questions:

Sometimes, the period of self-doubt and reflection is marked by a question you ask yourself repeatedly.
Did you ask yourself such a question over and over during this time?

How long did you doubt yourself?

an hour

What happened to the friendship/relationship during this period?

I felt something like grief or sadness
harsh words were spoken
Other:

In the long term, what happened to this friendship or relationship as a result?

Other:


Response: #5
Received: Jan 24, 1999 15:41 ET

Did you ever have a friend or co-worker who caused you to question your own worth?
Was there ever a time when he or she shook your confidence in your own goodness?
Did you doubt your suitability as a friend, or your integrity as a person?

Perhaps he or she made a remark about your character without thinking,
or behaved in a way that said "I question your maturity or responsibility."

Think of a person from your past, someone who gave you such self-doubts.

About your feelings of self-doubt --

What did he or she do or say that made you question yourself?

Nagging Questions:

Sometimes, the period of self-doubt and reflection is marked by a question you ask yourself repeatedly.
Did you ask yourself such a question over and over during this time?

How long did you doubt yourself?

only a moment

What happened to the friendship/relationship during this period?

I felt less close to this other person
no change, nothing unusual

In the long term, what happened to this friendship or relationship as a result?

Nothing bad



Response: #6
Received: Feb 11, 1999 20:24 ET

What did he or she do or say that made you question yourself?

Nagging Questions:

Sometimes, the period of self-doubt and reflection is marked by a question you ask yourself repeatedly.
Did you ask yourself such a question over and over during this time?

How long did you doubt yourself?

an hour

What happened to the friendship/relationship during this period?

Other:

In the long term, what happened to this friendship or relationship as a result?

Other:


Response: #7
Received: Feb 12, 1999 18:12 ET

What did he or she do or say that made you question yourself?

Nagging Questions:

Sometimes, the period of self-doubt and reflection is marked by a question you ask yourself repeatedly.
Did you ask yourself such a question over and over during this time?

How long did you doubt yourself?

a day

What happened to the friendship/relationship during this period?

I felt less close to this other person
I felt something like grief or sadness

In the long term, what happened to this friendship or relationship as a result?

Other:


Response: #8
Received: Mar 8, 1999 04:19 ET

Did you ever have a friend or co-worker who caused you to question your own worth?
Was there ever a time when he or she shook your confidence in your own goodness?
Did you doubt your suitability as a friend, or your integrity as a person?

Perhaps he or she made a remark about your character without thinking,
or behaved in a way that said "I question your maturity or responsibility."

Think of a person from your past, someone who gave you such self-doubts.

About your feelings of self-doubt --

What did he or she do or say that made you question yourself?

Nagging Questions:

Sometimes, the period of self-doubt and reflection is marked by a question you ask yourself repeatedly.
Did you ask yourself such a question over and over during this time?

How long did you doubt yourself?

never really stopped

What happened to the friendship/relationship during this period?

I felt less close to this other person
I felt something like grief or sadness
harsh words were spoken

In the long term, what happened to this friendship or relationship as a result?

We are no longer in contact.
Other:


Response: #9
Received: Mar 9, 1999 18:53 ET

What did he or she do or say that made you question yourself?

Nagging Questions:

Sometimes, the period of self-doubt and reflection is marked by a question you ask yourself repeatedly.
Did you ask yourself such a question over and over during this time?

How long did you doubt yourself?

a week

What happened to the friendship/relationship during this period?

I felt something like grief or sadness

In the long term, what happened to this friendship or relationship as a result?

Nothing bad
Other:


Response: #10
Received: Mar 27, 1999 00:23 ET

What did he or she do or say that made you question yourself?

Nagging Questions:

Sometimes, the period of self-doubt and reflection is marked by a question you ask yourself repeatedly.
Did you ask yourself such a question over and over during this time?

How long did you doubt yourself?

never really stopped

What happened to the friendship/relationship during this period?

I felt less close to this other person

In the long term, what happened to this friendship or relationship as a result?

Nothing bad


Response: #11
Received: Apr 1, 1999 01:54 ET

What did he or she do or say that made you question yourself?

Nagging Questions:

Sometimes, the period of self-doubt and reflection is marked by a question you ask yourself repeatedly.
Did you ask yourself such a question over and over during this time?

How long did you doubt yourself?

never really stopped

What happened to the friendship/relationship during this period?

I felt less close to this other person

In the long term, what happened to this friendship or relationship as a result?

Other:


Response: #12
Received: May 25, 1999 18:26 ET

Did you ever have a friend or co-worker who caused you to question your own worth?
Was there ever a time when he or she shook your confidence in your own goodness?
Did you doubt your suitability as a friend, or your integrity as a person?

Perhaps he or she made a remark about your character without thinking,
or behaved in a way that said "I question your maturity or responsibility."

Think of a person from your past, someone who gave you such self-doubts.

About your feelings of self-doubt --

What did he or she do or say that made you question yourself?

Nagging Questions:

Sometimes, the period of self-doubt and reflection is marked by a question you ask yourself repeatedly.
Did you ask yourself such a question over and over during this time?

How long did you doubt yourself?

a month

What happened to the friendship/relationship during this period?

harsh words were spoken

In the long term, what happened to this friendship or relationship as a result?

We are no longer in contact.



Response: #13
Received: Jun 1, 1999 18:17 ET

About your feelings of self-doubt --

What did he or she do or say that made you question yourself?

Nagging Questions:

Sometimes, the period of self-doubt and reflection is marked by a question you ask yourself repeatedly.
Did you ask yourself such a question over and over during this time?

How long did you doubt yourself?

an hour

What happened to the friendship/relationship during this period?

I felt less close to this other person

In the long term, what happened to this friendship or relationship as a result?

No change



Response: #14
Received: Jun 12, 1999 19:37 ET

Did you ever have a friend or co-worker who caused you to question your own worth?
Was there ever a time when he or she shook your confidence in your own goodness?
Did you doubt your suitability as a friend, or your integrity as a person?

Perhaps he or she made a remark about your character without thinking,
or behaved in a way that said "I question your maturity or responsibility."

Think of a person from your past, someone who gave you such self-doubts.

About your feelings of self-doubt --

What did he or she do or say that made you question yourself?

Nagging Questions:

Sometimes, the period of self-doubt and reflection is marked by a question you ask yourself repeatedly.
Did you ask yourself such a question over and over during this time?

How long did you doubt yourself?

a month

What happened to the friendship/relationship during this period?

harsh words were spoken
Other:

In the long term, what happened to this friendship or relationship as a result?

We are no longer in contact.
Other:



Response: #15
Received: Jul 2, 1999 16:06 ET

About your feelings of self-doubt --

What did he or she do or say that made you question yourself?

Nagging Questions:

Sometimes, the period of self-doubt and reflection is marked by a question you ask yourself repeatedly.
Did you ask yourself such a question over and over during this time?

How long did you doubt yourself?

only a moment

What happened to the friendship/relationship during this period?

harsh words were spoken

In the long term, what happened to this friendship or relationship as a result?

We are no longer in contact.


Response: #16
Received: Jul 22, 1999 02:25 ET

About your feelings of self-doubt --

What did he or she do or say that made you question yourself?

Nagging Questions:

Sometimes, the period of self-doubt and reflection is marked by a question you ask yourself repeatedly.
Did you ask yourself such a question over and over during this time?

How long did you doubt yourself?

never really stopped

What happened to the friendship/relationship during this period?

harsh words were spoken

In the long term, what happened to this friendship or relationship as a result?

Other:


Response: #17
Received: Aug 19, 1999 18:35 ET

About your feelings of self-doubt --

What did he or she do or say that made you question yourself?

Nagging Questions:

Sometimes, the period of self-doubt and reflection is marked by a question you ask yourself repeatedly.
Did you ask yourself such a question over and over during this time?

How long did you doubt yourself?

a week

What happened to the friendship/relationship during this period?

I felt less close to this other person
I felt something like grief or sadness
Other:

In the long term, what happened to this friendship or relationship as a result?

No change



Response: #18
Received: Sep 24, 1999 21:54 ET

Did you ever have a friend or co-worker who caused you to question your own worth?
Was there ever a time when he or she shook your confidence in your own goodness?
Did you doubt your suitability as a friend, or your integrity as a person?

Perhaps he or she made a remark about your character without thinking,
or behaved in a way that said "I question your maturity or responsibility."

Think of a person from your past, someone who gave you such self-doubts.

About your feelings of self-doubt --

What did he or she do or say that made you question yourself?

Nagging Questions:

Sometimes, the period of self-doubt and reflection is marked by a question you ask yourself repeatedly.
Did you ask yourself such a question over and over during this time?

How long did you doubt yourself?

never really stopped

What happened to the friendship/relationship during this period?

I felt something like grief or sadness

In the long term, what happened to this friendship or relationship as a result?

No change



Response: #19
Received: Oct 27, 1999 17:46 ET

About your feelings of self-doubt --

What did he or she do or say that made you question yourself?

Nagging Questions:

Sometimes, the period of self-doubt and reflection is marked by a question you ask yourself repeatedly.
Did you ask yourself such a question over and over during this time?

How long did you doubt yourself?

never really stopped

What happened to the friendship/relationship during this period?

I felt something like grief or sadness

In the long term, what happened to this friendship or relationship as a result?

No change


Response: #20
Received: Nov 11, 1999 20:09 ET

About your feelings of self-doubt --

What did he or she do or say that made you question yourself?

Nagging Questions:

Sometimes, the period of self-doubt and reflection is marked by a question you ask yourself repeatedly.
Did you ask yourself such a question over and over during this time?

How long did you doubt yourself?

a week

What happened to the friendship/relationship during this period?

I felt less close to this other person

In the long term, what happened to this friendship or relationship as a result?

Nothing bad
Other:


Response: #21
Received: Nov 16, 1999 02:33 ET

About your feelings of self-doubt --

What did he or she do or say that made you question yourself?

Nagging Questions:

Sometimes, the period of self-doubt and reflection is marked by a question you ask yourself repeatedly.
Did you ask yourself such a question over and over during this time?

How long did you doubt yourself?

never really stopped

What happened to the friendship/relationship during this period?

I felt less close to this other person
I felt something like grief or sadness
harsh words were spoken
Other:

In the long term, what happened to this friendship or relationship as a result?

Other:

It's ok if you give my name:

Response: #22
Received: Nov 17, 1999 00:47 ET

About your feelings of self-doubt --

What did he or she do or say that made you question yourself?

Nagging Questions:

Sometimes, the period of self-doubt and reflection is marked by a question you ask yourself repeatedly.
Did you ask yourself such a question over and over during this time?

How long did you doubt yourself?

a day

What happened to the friendship/relationship during this period?

I felt less close to this other person
I felt something like grief or sadness
harsh words were spoken
Other:

In the long term, what happened to this friendship or relationship as a result?

Other:


Response: #23
Received: Dec 9, 1999 15:23 ET

About your feelings of self-doubt --

What did he or she do or say that made you question yourself?

Nagging Questions:

Sometimes, the period of self-doubt and reflection is marked by a question you ask yourself repeatedly.
Did you ask yourself such a question over and over during this time?

How long did you doubt yourself?

a week

What happened to the friendship/relationship during this period?

Other:

In the long term, what happened to this friendship or relationship as a result?

Other:



Response: #24
Received: Dec 21, 1999 20:38 ET

About your feelings of self-doubt --

What did he or she do or say that made you question yourself?

Nagging Questions:

Sometimes, the period of self-doubt and reflection is marked by a question you ask yourself repeatedly.
Did you ask yourself such a question over and over during this time?

How long did you doubt yourself?

never really stopped

What happened to the friendship/relationship during this period?

I felt something like grief or sadness

In the long term, what happened to this friendship or relationship as a result?

Other:


Response: #25
Received: Dec 27, 1999 17:17 ET

....Think of a person from your past, someone who gave you such self-doubts.

About your feelings of self-doubt --

What did he or she do or say that made you question yourself?

Nagging Questions:

Sometimes, the period of self-doubt and reflection is marked by a question you ask yourself repeatedly.
Did you ask yourself such a question over and over during this time?

How long did you doubt yourself?

never really stopped

What happened to the friendship/relationship during this period?

I felt something like grief or sadness
harsh words were spoken

In the long term, what happened to this friendship or relationship as a result?

We are no longer in contact.

It's ok if you give my name:

Response: #26
Received: Mar 6, 2000 22:14 ET

Did you ever have a friend or co-worker who caused you to question your own worth?
Was there ever a time when he or she shook your confidence in your own goodness?
Did you doubt your suitability as a friend, or your integrity as a person?

Perhaps he or she made a remark about your character without thinking,
or behaved in a way that said "I question your maturity or responsibility."

Think of a person from your past, someone who gave you such self-doubts.

About your feelings of self-doubt --

What did he or she do or say that made you question yourself?

Nagging Questions:

Sometimes, the period of self-doubt and reflection is marked by a question you ask yourself repeatedly.
Did you ask yourself such a question over and over during this time?

How long did you doubt yourself?

only a moment

What happened to the friendship/relationship during this period?

harsh words were spoken
Other:

In the long term, what happened to this friendship or relationship as a result?

Other:



Response: #27
Received: Mar 23, 2000 12:01 ET

....Think of a person from your past, someone who gave you such self-doubts.

About your feelings of self-doubt --

What did he or she do or say that made you question yourself?

Nagging Questions:

Sometimes, the period of self-doubt and reflection is marked by a question you ask yourself repeatedly.
Did you ask yourself such a question over and over during this time?

How long did you doubt yourself?

never really stopped

What happened to the friendship/relationship during this period?

I felt less close to this other person

In the long term, what happened to this friendship or relationship as a result?

We are no longer in contact.

It's ok if you give my name:

Response: #28
Received: Mar 29, 2000 09:04 ET

....Think of a person from your past, someone who gave you such self-doubts.

About your feelings of self-doubt --

What did he or she do or say that made you question yourself?

Nagging Questions:

Sometimes, the period of self-doubt and reflection is marked by a question you ask yourself repeatedly.
Did you ask yourself such a question over and over during this time?

How long did you doubt yourself?

never really stopped

What happened to the friendship/relationship during this period?

Other:

In the long term, what happened to this friendship or relationship as a result?

Other:



Response: #29
Received: Aug 14, 2000 20:27 ET

Did you ever have a friend or co-worker who caused you to question your own worth?
Was there ever a time when he or she shook your confidence in your own goodness?
Did you doubt your suitability as a friend, or your integrity as a person?

Perhaps he or she made a remark about your character without thinking,
or behaved in a way that said "I question your maturity or responsibility."

Think of a person from your past, someone who gave you such self-doubts.

About your feelings of self-doubt --

What did he or she do or say that made you question yourself?

Nagging Questions:

Sometimes, the period of self-doubt and reflection is marked by a question you ask yourself repeatedly.
Did you ask yourself such a question over and over during this time?

How long did you doubt yourself?

a month

What happened to the friendship/relationship during this period?

I felt less close to this other person
I felt something like grief or sadness
harsh words were spoken
Other:

In the long term, what happened to this friendship or relationship as a result?

Other:



Response: #30
Received: Oct 27, 2000 00:03 ET

Did you ever have a friend or co-worker who caused you to question your own worth?
Was there ever a time when he or she shook your confidence in your own goodness?
Did you doubt your suitability as a friend, or your integrity as a person?

Perhaps he or she made a remark about your character without thinking,
or behaved in a way that said "I question your maturity or responsibility."

Think of a person from your past, someone who gave you such self-doubts.

About your feelings of self-doubt --

What did he or she do or say that made you question yourself?

Nagging Questions:

Sometimes, the period of self-doubt and reflection is marked by a question you ask yourself repeatedly.
Did you ask yourself such a question over and over during this time?

How long did you doubt yourself?

never really stopped

What happened to the friendship/relationship during this period?

I felt something like grief or sadness

In the long term, what happened to this friendship or relationship as a result?

We are no longer in contact.


Response: #31
Received: Jan 15, 2001 17:01 ET

....Think of a person from your past, someone who gave you such self-doubts.

About your feelings of self-doubt --

What did he or she do or say that made you question yourself?

Nagging Questions:

Sometimes, the period of self-doubt and reflection is marked by a question you ask yourself repeatedly.
Did you ask yourself such a question over and over during this time?

How long did you doubt yourself?

never really stopped

What happened to the friendship/relationship during this period?

no change, nothing unusual

In the long term, what happened to this friendship or relationship as a result?

We are no longer in contact.

It's ok if you give my name:


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