24. Be POSSESSIVE.

"Where are you going?"/"When will you be back?"/"Where have you been? I asked you a question!"/"Why weren't you here with me?"/"Who were you talking to just now? What did they say?"/"Haven't you been spending an awful lot of time with so-and-so?" Finally, try to excuse these control tactics by saying, "I was just concerned." (Surely we would not wish to display our concern in this manner. The need to control ends relationships. If you love somebody, let them be.)

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